How do I get my hair to stay like his ?

I used to straighten and blow dry my hair 24/7 , So right now my hair is DEAD , and I have split ends like crazy but I'm taking care of that I have really thick hair , and my hair is naturally curly like not curly curly were when it's wet it is still curly like wavy/curly and it's really cute when it's wet , but when I don't do anything It ALWAYS frizzes up and gets poofy , how do I maintain my wet look ? And no towel drying does not help my hair -.-